January 8, 2008 - Day 128/365...I NEED AN EFFIN' TRIPOD
No, I have no idea why I don't have a boyfriend either. Hahahahahaha. Ha. Ha. Ha. Oh. Awkward much? But seriously, it's not like I'm fugly, right? RIGHT? Don't answer. I was talking to my best friend about this problem of mine, basically, my inability to attract boys...or maybe more like my talent at scaring them away with my awkward conversations and inability to fake interest and laugh playfully and bat my eyelashes and play coy (I don't know - it's what you do when you flirt, right?). According to her, I have a tendency to make other people feel awkward and uncomfortable....mostly by remaining "silent". Yes, well, when I don't have anything to say, I don't have anything to say!
"You're cute. You can be silly and fun at times, but you're mostly an uptight bitch 80% of the time."
"..."
"Snobbish, judgmental, condescending, control freak, anal -"
"Er...yeah. You can stop now."
"You asked."
Whatever.
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January 8, 2008 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by sic |
The worst thing you can do is get all hung up on 'what's wrong with me'. There's absolutely nothing wrong with not being one of the clones, but it does usually mean that you have to wait a bit longer than most to find the person who gets you. However, when you do find that right person, it'll be so much more than you expected it to be, and you won't have to fake a laugh or anything like that.
I know it sounds horrendously cliche, but I'm living proof.
My wife and I were both abnormal and weird and never had luck with the opposite sex before we met each other, which wasn't until we were in our mid-twenties, and had both almost given up entirely on the prospect of finding someone.
So I say just be yourself, unapologetically, and it will almost certainly pay off in the long run. |
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January 8, 2008 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by morose |
| When I end up a spinster, we know whose fault it is! |
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January 10, 2008 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by theatypical |
So THAT's what friends do.
Alright, so here's the big problem. BLARGH! Trust me, when you get into a topic which interests you, you'll be fired up and interesting.
It's all in the frame of mind! Rargh! I find that if a girl is just enjoying herself, it's much easier to approach her. One of the most awkward things is if theres nothing to enjoy. Designate activities ftw!! |
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